Sunday, October 04, 2009

Hitachi Magic Wand: strong enough for seniors

Good Vibrations Best Selling Sex Toys Hitachi Magic Wand Vibrator MassagerThe Hitachi Magic Wand is exactly that: magic. I discovered its gift-that-keeps-on-giving qualities at least thirty years ago and enjoyed it often. It lasted for decades, but finally its head hardened and a rough ridge appeared, and I had to say goodbye.

Thank you, Good Vibrations, for sending me a new Hitachi Magic Wand for review. It's not just as good as I remembered -- at this time of my life, it's better. I've been complaining throughout my vibrator reviews that I wished they were stronger. This one is!

When I used the Magic Wand as a young woman, I remember I had to cushion it with a washcloth to diffuse the sensations and temper the intensity just enough. At age 65 (one month to 66, hardly seems possible), I no longer need the washcloth. The wand is comfortable with just lubricant for cushioning, and the intensity is exactly right for flying to the moon.

I found it hilarious that the instructions that come with the Magic Wand have a diagram with numbers indicating the safe and effective places to "massage" -- however the pelvic area is devoid of numbers! I guess we have to number our own....

(FYI, as I proofread this review, I discovered I twice mistyped "Magic Want" instead of "Magic Wand." Now what does that tell you?)

If you googled "Hitachi Magic Wand review" you'd get 70,000 hits -- but I'll bet this is the only one you'll read aimed at the senior/elder user. The Hitachi is the best-known (and best-loved) vibrator ever made, but I realize that many women in our age group grew up without sex toys being part of their experience.

Now that we've reached our age, an extra boost of intensity is really important for the stimulation our homone-depleted bodies require to fire. If you haven't incorporated sex toys into love play -- with a partner or solo -- I hope you'll open your mind to it. Simply put, it's far easier to reach an orgasm with the buzz from a clitoral vibrator than on our own. That's just fact, at this stage of our lives. If you're a woman who no longer reaches an orgasm easily -- or at all -- realize that you can recapture the sensation with some help -- a Magic Wand, so to speak. (If you're new to the idea of sex-toy-assisted stimulation, please read Senior Sex & Vibrators: Myths & Facts.)

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1 comment:

  1. Dear Joan-

    I must say I find your blog exhilarating. As a 51 year old man I am in a relationship with a wonderful woman, that seems to have similar ideas as you.

    I did not know anything until after I was 40 and it seems the older I get the better sex is.

    Thanks for your blog and please continue.


    Doc R


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