tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17568814.post7814734455270348905..comments2023-07-20T03:25:34.929-07:00Comments on Naked at Our Age - Joan Price - Sex & Aging Views & News: Invitation: What do you want to see in new book?Joan Pricehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06423337694076541862noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17568814.post-5139313112756215032013-06-27T08:09:10.682-07:002013-06-27T08:09:10.682-07:00THANKS Joan! What quick advice.
AnneTHANKS Joan! What quick advice.<br /><br />AnneAnnenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17568814.post-4430357541340769082013-06-26T16:12:59.543-07:002013-06-26T16:12:59.543-07:00I'm so glad you asked that, Anne. Two ideas co...I'm so glad you asked that, Anne. Two ideas come to me right away:<br /><br />1. Have a glass of your lover's favorite ice-cold drink next to the bed. Have him take a sip and swirl some ice in his mouth before he starts cunnilingus! He can keep sipping every few minutes to keep his mouth cold.<br /><br />2. If you really love cold, have him rub your vulva with an ice cube right before oral sex and frequently thereafter. <br /><br />Please, please let us know if you like either of these ideas, and if one of them works!Joan Pricehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06423337694076541862noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17568814.post-90546340503961032142013-06-26T15:53:33.316-07:002013-06-26T15:53:33.316-07:00Thanks for asking, Joan!
I hear that cunnilingus ...Thanks for asking, Joan!<br /><br />I hear that cunnilingus is great, but I've had little experience with it. Granted, my lovers weren't that interested or proficient. But I don't put it all on them. I'm not that responsive because a warm tongue dulls out my nerve endings. At most it's comforting like a warm blanket, not thrilling like sex can be. <br /><br />Cold touch, actually, is more arousing. Because of this, I haven't asked for it much with my lover because I don't know how to help him arouse me when the very warmth of his tongue deadens me out. <br /><br />So my question is this: is it possible to feel great oral sex if warm isn't my thing? If it is possible, then I'm sure I could help my lover learn to thrill me. <br /><br />Anne<br />60Annenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17568814.post-49963736471557527702013-05-31T08:41:04.484-07:002013-05-31T08:41:04.484-07:00She was age appropriate and beautiful, I thought. ...She was age appropriate and beautiful, I thought. But she presented her body and self in that moment, she put out (hmmm, interesting phrase) her self/nakedness, person, soul like a joke flower in a clown's pocket. <br /><br />That afternoon I was naked in the tub in the daytime with great anticipation. I thought it was a sacred apex event we had talked and worked hard to unfold over four or five get-to-know-me dates; over a month's time. And she arrived on stage then glib. She even had experience in theater. <br /><br />Funny thing is she'd said several times other men had said she had a great body naked; and said it again then. BTW, I'd disrobed and showed her everything in one twirl moment on our 2nd date weeks back. We talked about this. I cared for nothing anybody else thought of her body. I wanted to know what SHE thought of her body/soul/person at that unveiling. <br /><br />You know, I dated a year later a curvy, round poet woman with 50-60 extra lbs. Getting naked with her was always sacred. And she was always beautiful. Women are so stupid around what they think a guy thinks is beautiful. We want to know what the woman thinks about her body. "Beautiful" women are the worst at this I think.<br /><br />Getting naked the 1st time with a woman was like sacred cherry popping time for me. Happens only once. It's a ceremony. She spoiled it. I was looking for intimacy, not a poke with a clown flower. I know she was nervous but she didn't do well. We parted weeks later, never made love.Dannoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17568814.post-12878805193106035232013-05-28T09:55:03.458-07:002013-05-28T09:55:03.458-07:00Thank you for all these terrific ideas, Dan. Pleas...Thank you for all these terrific ideas, Dan. Please clarify: when you said your hot tub partner "flunked," do you mean she was not comfortable naked, or that you didn't like her body? (I hope you meant the former.)Joan Pricehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06423337694076541862noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17568814.post-87917576115653419402013-05-27T18:39:53.745-07:002013-05-27T18:39:53.745-07:00OK...
A) non simultaneity! Coming at the same tim...OK...<br /><br />A) non simultaneity! Coming at the same time, not likely at our age. Who comes first? Does it count if I come on her belly after she comes? Or come the next day? Last week I was dripping all day because my beloved came powerfully and I said that night: "Late...tomorrow is OK." Was nice actually. But it is tomorrow and I'm still waiting! wondering!<br /><br />B) power exchange and mild kink; we've gotten into light spanking and light flogging and nipple clamps type power play, read books about it. We are both shocked how it is helping, giving us something to talk about, providing spark...yet we don't want to go to far here. You say little about the positive side of kink or the spirituality of kink. Barbara Carellas and Dossie Easton are brilliant here....but scary. Address this?<br /><br />C) How with tact to you ask health questions dating? 1st date? I did. I'd never go on a 2nd date with a woman who'd had stroke history. But that's me. I was 54 at the time. <br /><br />D) Penis size and body issues. Not kidding...on a 2nd date years back, a woman hinted at this as she'd had a disappointing relationship with a VERY small penis man. We laughed but I disrobed right there for her...thought that only fair and the best way to answer her. I later wanted to see her naked, too; see how comfortable she was in the daytime naked. We took a hot tub at her place two dates later; and she flunked.<br /><br />That's four. I'll think of more. Go for it. Can't wait to read your next book.<br /> DanDan, 65noreply@blogger.com