tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17568814.post6032877281919616581..comments2023-07-20T03:25:34.929-07:00Comments on Naked at Our Age - Joan Price - Sex & Aging Views & News: 62-year-old Woman Seeks Man for SexJoan Pricehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06423337694076541862noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17568814.post-31336470092379219202017-09-13T20:18:12.401-07:002017-09-13T20:18:12.401-07:00Is it true that BBW have hassle tⲟ fjnd a partner?...Is it true that BBW have hassle tⲟ fjnd a partner?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17568814.post-57502706809007300342014-07-24T08:29:51.892-07:002014-07-24T08:29:51.892-07:00Check out your nearest senior center.
I run a web...Check out your nearest senior center.<br /><br />I run a website where people post their hookup stories (The Casual Sex Project). Yesterday, a 56yo man posted a story called Senior Sex in which he described a vibrant sexual culture at his local senior center, including plenty of casual sex and threesomes. "Best time of my life," he described it.Zhanahttp://thecasualsexproject.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17568814.post-49702232173288402972014-07-10T11:53:32.717-07:002014-07-10T11:53:32.717-07:00@oatmeal girl I agree with her; dating at 54 o...@oatmeal girl I agree with her; dating at 54 online I had a woman on Match.com say age xx on the cover page and then, when you clicked thru for the profile said in the 1st sentence: "OK, so I fudged and fibbed some, I'm not 59 but 61; but then you'd never have clicked thru right? Read my profile and tell me you minded being tricked some."<br />I say and have said that "All lovers are liars." We try to tell the truth but love is a journey with MANY moving parts. We have to know the truth to tell the truth and it is so hard to know your own self. I say.<br />....<br />thanks Joan for making us think. Yes, after 30yrs of a crumbs for sex marriage, I was SHOCKED some ladies just wanted to fuck. My, my. As a guy I had to slow the train down so as not to get hurt. Honest.<br />As I've said before, I dated online for 5 years and got married. It is the only way for seniors to date in my opinion.<br /> DanDannoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17568814.post-5984361096908195152014-07-05T07:15:12.807-07:002014-07-05T07:15:12.807-07:00I see your point if you reveal it in your profile....I see your point if you reveal it in your profile. I'm still on the side of full disclosure from the beginning. Realize that the "computer" doesn't decide what the upper age limit is for potential partners -- those potential partners do. I'll sometimes message someone and ask, "Is your upper age limit firm? Please view my profile before answering." Joan Pricehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06423337694076541862noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17568814.post-19409982279579821972014-07-05T05:58:15.212-07:002014-07-05T05:58:15.212-07:00I don't see it as lying about your age if you ...I don't see it as lying about your age if you reveal it when you write the description about yourself. The reader learns immediately what you are. It's only a way to get your profile in front of someone's eyes, like not putting your graduation date on your resume. There IS age discrimination in the world. We need to give people a chance to get to know us by slipping past the computer and saying to the waiting person: here I am. I'm 60+ and I'm hot.oatmeal girlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12842608615972752000noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17568814.post-77554101956500229922014-07-04T22:09:27.423-07:002014-07-04T22:09:27.423-07:00Oatmeal Girl, yes, we mentioned OK Cupid. Thanks f...Oatmeal Girl, yes, we mentioned OK Cupid. Thanks for your thoughtful comment. Respectfully, though, I am totally against lying about our age. It sends the wrong message, and men feel duped when they learn the truth. You'll have to trust me on that -- I hear it all the time. We need to own our age and if someone screens us out for that, it's his loss. What we have to offer is authenticity -- otherwise, what's the point? Lying on a "job application" is never a good idea.Joan Pricehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06423337694076541862noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17568814.post-461755573878119962014-07-04T22:03:55.564-07:002014-07-04T22:03:55.564-07:00OK Cupid is another good option. Many of the men ...OK Cupid is another good option. Many of the men are looking for casual sex, and are quite open about that. By the way, since you're not far above 60, I suggest that when filling out the form you say you are 59. Even the NY Times ethicist said that's ok as long as you reveal the truth in the paragraph you write - especially if you look relatively long. This keeps you from getting shut out of search results. There ARE men our age or younger who are happy with older women who are enthusiastic about sex. Also, think of your profile as a job application - not just what you're looking for but what you have to offer. What you can do for HIM.oatmeal girlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12842608615972752000noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17568814.post-79662285003549307412014-07-04T20:36:31.913-07:002014-07-04T20:36:31.913-07:00I would also suggest she find a Tantra education c...I would also suggest she find a Tantra education class that is ongoing. She may find a man in the class that she resonates with that would be willing to help her meet her desires and needs; a DakaAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17568814.post-21062701595703591252014-07-04T19:35:58.089-07:002014-07-04T19:35:58.089-07:00It's impossible to read all this positivity an...It's impossible to read all this positivity and not get excited about not only my sex life but life in general, as sex is a celebration of life and of the self.<br /><br />Thank you all who contributed!! :)Odd Duckhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08044697093531507362noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17568814.post-31212933087778170162014-07-04T15:00:04.412-07:002014-07-04T15:00:04.412-07:00Joan, I half a girlfriend (49) who's used CL f...Joan, I half a girlfriend (49) who's used CL for NSA sex many times and it's always been fine ( at least in the sense that she's never felt threatened or unsafe, don't know about the actual sex). She has some basic rules she's shared with me:<br /><br />1) email or chat to establish some communality - likes/dislikes, safe sex etc.<br />2) best to meet first in a public place to see if there's real life <br />chemistry. If not, it's an easier escape.<br />3) tell at least one friend who you're with and where you are.<br />(That was my job.)<br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com