tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17568814.post3839684620864256537..comments2023-07-20T03:25:34.929-07:00Comments on Naked at Our Age - Joan Price - Sex & Aging Views & News: Sex and Intimacy after CancerJoan Pricehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06423337694076541862noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17568814.post-2358109032488384672010-12-21T22:25:22.491-08:002010-12-21T22:25:22.491-08:00I'm 66 and recently dated a 70 year old who su...I'm 66 and recently dated a 70 year old who survived breast cancer through surgery. Always wondered how I'd be with a one breasted lady. Had seen many at nudist resorts - strong and proud - but never dated any.<br /><br />What I found was it was a joy just to have one breast to focus on. While I focused loving attention on her scar, it was just very cool to be able to focus sexual attention on the one breast and not have to worry about switching back and forth and being sure each had equal attention.<br /><br />I know that sounds weird, or even lazy, but it was an enjoyable change. Maybe other men have felt the same?Ronnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17568814.post-62557878139292150282010-04-20T07:39:47.293-07:002010-04-20T07:39:47.293-07:00I am a cancer nurse and I have a new blog on cance...I am a cancer nurse and I have a new blog on cancer wisdom. I want to create a link from that site to here. This is wonderful information. I had already written a story on Sexuality, and this would be such a good link for people to see. Thanks for your blogging on this subject.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17568814.post-86811406675040390662008-03-14T13:58:00.000-07:002008-03-14T13:58:00.000-07:00As a bodyworker I would like to emphasize what is ...As a bodyworker I would like to emphasize what is mentioned in this article, touching in a respectful and loving way. This kind of touch is sooo good for us!!! <BR/><BR/>Giving a partner who's been seriously ill gentle massages which have no "performance" expectations (on either side, you don't have to be great at massage either, just touch and listen to your partner) would be such a good way to reconnect as lovers while also helping the one who's been ill recover and regain strength. I have not had this experience myself so I can only imagine how wonderful this would be.<BR/><BR/>The Asian perspective on health would say that a body recovering from a serious illness may not have enough reserve life energy to feel directly sexual, but that this would in most cases be something one could regain as part of the healing process.<BR/><BR/>Maybe not everyone would want to be sexual again and that's okay too. Also touch doesn't have to be sexual or end up leading in that direction.<BR/><BR/>I think the advice outlined in this post is very wise.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com