tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17568814.post3806423695611714461..comments2023-07-20T03:25:34.929-07:00Comments on Naked at Our Age - Joan Price - Sex & Aging Views & News: Senior Sex & Vibrators: Myths & FactsJoan Pricehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06423337694076541862noreply@blogger.comBlogger21125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17568814.post-37127137305350316042019-04-24T09:44:07.569-07:002019-04-24T09:44:07.569-07:00You can wear it either way. See https://www.goodvi...You can wear it either way. See https://www.goodvibes.com/s/content/c/product-info-cock-rings. If there's a good, friendly sex toy store in your area, visit and ask questions and learn about the qualities of different types. You don't need to figure this out on your own!<br />Joan Pricehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06423337694076541862noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17568814.post-10113292969098878212019-04-23T04:12:25.521-07:002019-04-23T04:12:25.521-07:00Does it depend on where the ring is placed ? Shoul...Does it depend on where the ring is placed ? Should it be behind the scrotum and penis....just behind the scrotum (testicles) or placed on the shaft of the penis solely ?<br />There are conflicting write-ups when I do a Google search. Help !! dge1alivehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09448106322805422754noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17568814.post-39099062982878361842019-04-23T04:05:58.196-07:002019-04-23T04:05:58.196-07:00Sorry Joan, but I disagree with "you really n...Sorry Joan, but I disagree with "you really need your wife's input before picking out a sex toy for her. It needs to be something she wants, otherwise it will feel to her like pressure to have sex." Here's why. Years ago ,my wife had a very hard time reaching orgasm. She had had a very religious and uptight upbringing....ie: it took us 3 days to consummate our marriage because on Friday it was a sin, but after the wedding...Sat night,it was supposed to be fireworks. Needless to say, this was a problem in the first few years of our marriage and any attempt to talk about it was met with pursed lips and silence. I thought I was at fault...did a lot of reading and eventually bought a vibrator and showed it to my wife. This was in the 60's.....the beginning of the ' Sexual Revolution -supposedly! After much talking and rationalizing, by wife agreed to 'Try It '.....We have incorporated the use of a vibrator in our love making for over 50 years and love making is fun....not work. We both came to the conclusion that my lover is one of those ladies who has a very difficult time..going over the edge ..<br />We are truly thankful that I surprised her....prevailed upon her...to open up to something different.dge1alivehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09448106322805422754noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17568814.post-50596342683579949632019-04-22T09:18:48.427-07:002019-04-22T09:18:48.427-07:00You absolutely can reach orgasm wearing a cock rin...You absolutely can reach orgasm wearing a cock ring. It can delay ejaculation, and many report that it heightens orgasm. Joan Pricehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06423337694076541862noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17568814.post-44335317144227312022019-04-22T02:43:42.277-07:002019-04-22T02:43:42.277-07:00We are thinking about using a cock ring but I am c...We are thinking about using a cock ring but I am concerned that it will inhibit ejaculation.Is this so, or can can you reach orgasm while wearing one ? My wife gets pleasure from feeling me ejaculate inside her and it usually triggers another orgasm for her.dge1alivehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09448106322805422754noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17568814.post-49091838609859422982015-10-19T12:41:24.071-07:002015-10-19T12:41:24.071-07:00Note to "Ames": Just letting you know th...Note to "Ames": Just letting you know that I deleted your comment because your name linked to a sex toy shop that I do not know or endorse. It's clear in the guidelines that you can't do that. I'm writing because your comment was worthwhile on its own, but using it to send my readers to a commercial site I don't endorse is not okay.Joan Pricehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06423337694076541862noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17568814.post-14469544215864717502013-11-10T05:20:25.176-08:002013-11-10T05:20:25.176-08:00"using a vibrator to get us over the edge act..."using a vibrator to get us over the edge actually enhances sensitivity and ease of reaching orgasm" -- you are absolutely right, Sophie.Joan Pricehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06423337694076541862noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17568814.post-4155761475923885062013-11-10T03:03:12.893-08:002013-11-10T03:03:12.893-08:00Thank you for your courage in sharing your post. A...Thank you for your courage in sharing your post. And I believe the more orgasms we have, the more easily we reach orgasm the next time. So using a vibrator to get us over the edge actually enhances sensitivity and ease of reaching orgasm. Keep sharing.Sophie Chambershttp://www.urboutik.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17568814.post-83798215056850186662013-11-04T09:41:19.882-08:002013-11-04T09:41:19.882-08:00Anonymous, she'll only get what she needs when...Anonymous, she'll only get what she needs when she stands up for it. She can say, "We'll use them together when we both want to, but I'll also use them privately whenever I want." He doesn't get to dictate what she does in private, but if she doesn't speak out loud and clearly, he may think that she's fine with the program he set forth.Joan Pricehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06423337694076541862noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17568814.post-14165209647726939252013-11-04T03:24:12.623-08:002013-11-04T03:24:12.623-08:00What would you suggest for a woman whose husband t...What would you suggest for a woman whose husband thinks sex toys are ok as long as he gets to use them on her? <br /><br />When does her need enter the picture?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17568814.post-18665114939332334962012-08-18T15:11:07.847-07:002012-08-18T15:11:07.847-07:00Anonymous, yes, I have lots of good information fo...Anonymous, yes, I have lots of good information for you. First, please read Naked at Our Age, because I cover many of the topics you bring up: solo sex, vibrators, communication, prostate surgery, ways to please each other without an erection, and so much more. <br /><br />You're doing the right thing by exploring vibrators -- good for you. Did you notice that I've reviewed dozens of different vibrators on this blog? If arm length is a problem, seek out vibrators that stay put once you place them where you want them. <br /><br />If you email me directly and tell me the kind of vibrator you want to use, I'll help you find the right one.<br /><br />I also do phone/Skype consultations, if you think this would be helpful. We can often solve years of dissatisfaction with one hour of discussion. If my information isn't enough to help you bring sexy delight into your life, I'll have referral suggestions.<br /><br />- JoanJoan Pricehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06423337694076541862noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17568814.post-51746900810799153742012-08-18T13:57:46.121-07:002012-08-18T13:57:46.121-07:00I am 81 and haven't had sex for 20 years and n...I am 81 and haven't had sex for 20 years and now am almost obsessed with the desire for it. I have for the first time orderd vibrators which are not easy for me to use due to short arms that make it difficult to manipulate the appliance. My husband has had prostrate surgery and we don't have any sexual partnering. I just can't talk to anyone about this for fear it will be seen as lunacy on my part. I also worry that this desire might be a sign of an other health issue though I am not aware of any.Any helpful information for me?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17568814.post-75865317828031872442010-10-30T20:49:34.772-07:002010-10-30T20:49:34.772-07:00Kim, that's the Cone Vibrator -- read my revie...Kim, that's the Cone Vibrator -- read my review at http://betterthanieverexpected.blogspot.com/2009/05/vibrating-with-hands-free-cone.html. (If that long URL doesn't hyperlink, copy & paste, or do a search for "cone vibrator" in the Blogger search box at the top of the page.)Joan Pricehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06423337694076541862noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17568814.post-75221494359996416422010-10-30T17:52:26.658-07:002010-10-30T17:52:26.658-07:00Joan, what is that purple cone in the picture?Joan, what is that purple cone in the picture?Kimnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17568814.post-41763366144266062222010-10-30T15:39:38.453-07:002010-10-30T15:39:38.453-07:00Great responses to these questions! :DGreat responses to these questions! :DSerenaDantehttp://serenadante.xanga.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17568814.post-88393135475055791532009-10-19T09:42:25.063-07:002009-10-19T09:42:25.063-07:00Susana, what valuable information! Would you be in...Susana, what valuable information! Would you be interested in a guest post on this topic? Let's talk by email.Joan Pricehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06423337694076541862noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17568814.post-73579420453497012112009-10-18T16:49:29.756-07:002009-10-18T16:49:29.756-07:00To the man purchasing a vibrator for wife, so much...To the man purchasing a vibrator for wife, so much to say. If you were not "too big" before you stopped having intercourse then she has probably gone into vaginal atrophy. More going on than just shrinking, probably viscosity change - watery. Moisturizer and lub might help, if not estriol cream prescribed by gyn would be helpful. This is a slow, gradual process of stretching the vagina. Dilators work, but they are introduced in stages, follow directions carefully. It can be frustrating at times but until your wife is comfortable with you entering her, don't. You could tear her thinning walls. I'm basing this on her age. Play, have fun, enjoy each other sexually without having intercourse, you might be surprised at all the different styles of sexplay you can create for pleasure. Good luck, enjoy! <br />Susana Mayer, PhD<br />Clinical SexologistFounder, Host and Muse Susana Mayer, Ph.D.https://www.blogger.com/profile/16670431062961180312noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17568814.post-11450120727281380172009-06-23T14:36:20.807-07:002009-06-23T14:36:20.807-07:00jekandhyd, you really need your wife's input b...jekandhyd, you really need your wife's input before picking out a sex toy for her. It needs to be something she wants, otherwise it will feel to her like pressure to have sex.<br /><br />I would guess that if she's having trouble accomodating your size, she would prefer a clitoral stimulator (used on the clitoris, not internally), rather than a dildo (used for penetation). If her vagina has shrunk, yes, small dildo-like products called dilators can help stretch her comfortably. <br /><br />But SHE needs to choose! Rather than shop in a place that feels too seedy to her, look at the online catalogues of the shops I recommend or Amazon and show her some of the possibilities. <br /><br />It might be a problem in the relationship that's making her retreat from sex, and a counselor could be a better first stop than a sex-toy shop. If it's been years since you last had sex together, it's time to find out what's the matter -- emotionally, physically, communication-wise -- and let a better sex life be a result of improving your interactions in general.<br /><br />Obviously I don't know you or your wife and can't be sure what's going on. I applaud you for reaching out for information, and I do hope your wife is willing to talk about it with you and/or a counselor.Joan Pricehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06423337694076541862noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17568814.post-1396050180482376842009-06-23T13:40:44.510-07:002009-06-23T13:40:44.510-07:00This week I am going shopping for a dildo or vibra...This week I am going shopping for a dildo or vibrator for my wife (aged 50). It will be her first. We haven't had sex for several years because she says I am too "big" (rubbish say I). Hence I want to get her a toy that she can "exercise" with. Any suggestions - and please don't say take her with me because she would never go into a sex shop (think UK, represed, single sex boarding school, Victorian values, etc). I love her to bits and this is driving me madjekandhydhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13914068879125283819noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17568814.post-78551874287382028782009-06-23T11:09:18.921-07:002009-06-23T11:09:18.921-07:00Robert gave me the toy lamb about four years ago, ...Robert gave me the toy lamb about four years ago, when I was traveling without him to promote my book. He said it would protect me on my travels, remind me of him, and give me something cuddly to sleep with. <br /><br />I recently bought a digital camera, and I include the lamb in photos because it reminds me of how Robert supported my work, as embarrassing as it was to him sometimes. And it makes me smile!Joan Pricehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06423337694076541862noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17568814.post-55166167872237102122009-06-23T11:00:21.772-07:002009-06-23T11:00:21.772-07:00This was fun to read and did clear up a misconcept...This was fun to read and did clear up a misconception I had. But what's with the lamb in your recent photos? Is the lamb a sex toy of some sort? Or does he/she like using sex toys?Curious, age 64noreply@blogger.com