tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17568814.post2913402782677304897..comments2023-07-20T03:25:34.929-07:00Comments on Naked at Our Age - Joan Price - Sex & Aging Views & News: Reader: "I have difficulty ejaculating." Michael Castleman responds.Joan Pricehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06423337694076541862noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17568814.post-26118015767275693932012-01-11T15:25:20.878-08:002012-01-11T15:25:20.878-08:00Make love in the morning before you get out of bed...Make love in the morning before you get out of bed. Higher testosterone levels in both of you, but in particular in men. <br />Use a soft, medical grade cock ring. Don't put it on too tightly either, you don't need to, it will work just fine. Don't eave it on for more than 20 minutes at a time. <br />Have your lover do her kegels. They make a world of difference in these situations and she'll have stronger orgasms too because of tighter muscles. <br />good luckSuzie Heumannhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05185759867591073942noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17568814.post-75786046352807970952012-01-07T13:16:10.623-08:002012-01-07T13:16:10.623-08:00My experience with my lover is exactly like Buddy&...My experience with my lover is exactly like Buddy's experience with his lover. I'm so glad this issue came up in this forum. <br /><br />Michael Castleman's information looks good and promising. But there's nothing like hearing from readers who have successfully dealt with this. I was just going to ask people to write in to help those of us who deal with this, and there was Me Again's post! <br /><br />Thanks, Me Again. It's both helpful and inspiring to hear how you deal with this. I'd love to hear others' stories too. <br /><br />EllaEllanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17568814.post-7778253698467281672012-01-07T09:09:26.811-08:002012-01-07T09:09:26.811-08:00I'm 67 and identify with the post. A great way...I'm 67 and identify with the post. A great way to make love is to get in sort of an X position so genitals are touching. Look each other in the eye. She reaches down and pleasures herself. He reaches down and pleasures himself...only on his upstroke the meat of the top of his hamd impacts her vulva - so she feels his rhythm and it replicates missionary position. By pleasureing himself he's probably gonna stay harder. After a while he can occasionally "slip it in" while she continues to pleasure herself...just a few strokes, then back out and thumping away at the vulva as he goes. He can also take an interlude to rub the head of his penis all over her vulva while she continues to pleasure herself. Very erotic. Only decision is does he want to ejaculate inside her or stay outside and ejaculate on her clitoris as she has her orgasm?<br /><br />And, for sure check the meds with the doc.Me Againnoreply@blogger.com