OK, I have to ask you -- if you arrived at this site because you typed "granny sex" into your search engine, what were you hoping or expecting to find? I'm sincerely curious! Were you hoping to find an affirmation of older-age sexuality? (if so, you're in the right place!) Or did you use those search words because you're intrigued by what your grandmother might be doing behind closed doors? Or because you expect to get a giggle from a site that makes fun of elder sex? I'm just wondering... I hope you'll comment!
If you're wondering why I'm asking this, it turns out that many people arrive here because they searched "granny sex." Far more of you search by "sexy seniors" or "senior sex" or "sex after sixty," and that makes sense. But this "granny sex" idea puzzles me, and I hope you'll respond! (You can either click "comments" below or email me, your choice.
2/6/08 update: As readers continue to use "granny sex" in emails to me and comments on this blog, as well as the search words that bring you here, I've come to understand that the term is not meant disrespectfully. In fact, a few of you have written me using "granny sex" quite lovingly. Is this term used outside the US more commonly than it is here, I wonder...?
Sunday, September 16, 2007
Looking for "Granny Sex"?
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Hello, I am a 36 yr old male and am very attracted older women. I have never had a relationship with an older lady, but I get very excited about the thought of having an intimate lasting relationship with a more mature woman. I am attractive, not a Brad Pitt, but definitely better than average. I have looked up Granny Sex before, but have never experienced it. I don't just want Granny sex, I want a Granny Relationship. How do I approach a lady in her 50's or 60's. I believe that such women would just look at me as just a horny younger man looking for sex instead of sincerely looking for a more fulfilling relationship with a woman that I'm attracted to. How can I put myself out there as available to older women with a true desire to please her in all aspects of a meaninful relationship?
ReplyDeleteI'm a 19 yr boy and I think older women are more attractive that the girls of my age. I don't know why, but it's true. I'm only talking about a sexual attraction, because I already have a girlfriend, but for me she isn't so attractive that a "granny". Is this a perversion? I don't know. I never experienced this type of sexual relationship, but I really dream about it very often, even if I know that this experience wont be in my future, and this makes me very sad. Sorry for my english, but I wanted to say that...
ReplyDeleteI am 19 now and for many years have loved older women, i find them more attractive for some reason and love seeing them naked. Im not going to mention how old i was but i lost my virginity to a "granny" and it was brilliant, i know many people will read this and think that i am making this up but im truely not. This woman was 59 and old enough to be my grandmother and i had known her since i had been 5 or 6. I loved havin sex with her and i am not ashamed of having sex with someone so much older than myself, so much so that we have had sex since that night. I think if you ask many men, you will find that 60-70% of them will openly admit that they would love to have sex with an older women but as for knowing why, i couldnt tell you.
ReplyDeleteihad sex with a women 68years old when iwas 14 now im 60 and i have always loved having sex with older women i have oral sex with a 73yearold women and its great for both of us
ReplyDeleteI have always been attracted to older women. I think a lot has to do with early life sexual experiences with older women.
ReplyDeleteI had short relationships with:
when I was 15 with a 60 something year old woman
When 19, a 40 ish woman, and
When 21 a woman in her late 30's. For me it was a way to have sex, enjoy sex, learn about sex, with a stress free atmosphere.
Dear Joan
ReplyDeleteI am 50+ and have always been attracted to older women. I find them almost always to be sexier, more appreciative, willing to experiment and generally more exciting to be with. Even when I was a teen ager I had many experiences with older women. One of the most exciting was with my across the street neighbor who was 30 something when I was 17. We had a summer of love. One spring break I went down to Miami and meet a 40-50 lady from the midwest. She was vacationing with two girlfriends (sans husbands for the weekend) and I ended up in bed with her and stayed in her hotel for two nights. She took my photograph and was interested in staying in touch ( of course we never did.) I presently have a lover who is my contemporary and I still sometimes close my eyes and fantasize that I am with a much older lady who is very demanding and needy. I am sure the fantasy is probably a little better than the reality, however I would love to meet and bed down with a 65-75 something lady right now! J-
Hmm.... I'm not so sure I want to be called the "Granny" in this relationship! I don't find it flattering at all and so I choose to boycott the term. Sorry if I'm a party-pooper here. I think that all of us older women who are trying to cope with an older body in spite of our young souls are not being helped by being termed as "Granny" in any shape, manner or form... least of all our own attitudes of self. The term "cougar" for older women has recently crossed my path and I can accept that much more readily. As I mention somewhere else on Joan's blog, I would personally much prefer being referred to as feral than as pruney.
ReplyDeleteJust my two cents.
hi im 18 years old n i know all off u are just going to think that this comment is a joke.. but to be honest, i realy like older/mature wemen... i think they are great... i know i know, you will all say im very young, but as people say, age dosent matter... at least now i can be abel 2 share my feelings to other people.... tnx for reading..
ReplyDeleteHi Joan, I´m 37 and have married twice already, to women either same age or younger. Since last year I met my current girl (and hopefully wife-to-be) who´s 57. I could never figure her age until she told me, as she looks not to be even 40 yet. Our relationship is outstandingly good, we really get along well, and I never think anymore of having anyone younger. This is the most fulfilling relationship I ever had, not only for the sex but also for the mindset. I guess noticing her behavior in bed was what hooked me - she really pursuits her own pleasure giving all of her towards it, seems she doesn´t bother at all about my pleasure, but that is what makes it all the most special because indicates liberation that only maturity can bring. Cheers, Carlos
ReplyDeleteHello, i am a nineteen year old boy whom, for as long as i can remember has always found mature age women very attractive. i would not want to form a long tem relationship with one but the idea of having a sexual relationship with a grandmother is highlt exicting to me. despite this i dont want people to think of me as just a horrny yound man. i would never dream of just having sex with these women and trating them like i don't care, for i do. it's just that i would love to be in a sexual relationship with no strings attached. unfortunatly i have no idea how to go about this. can anyone offer any advice?
ReplyDeletehello i am very attracted to older woman (ganny)or mature
ReplyDeletei want a sex replationchip with one its just that i would love to be in a sexual relationship with no strings attached. unfortunatly i have no idea how to go about this. can anyone offer me any help please
Shaz1, you've said what you want, but what is it you're offering this no-strings-attached older woman?
ReplyDeleteHi,my first turn on with older woman was the movie summer of 42 yes I got so excited I thought I was going to burst. Well I'm 57 now and the thought is very exciting still. an I've seen ladies in thier late 6o's early 70's that still have it going strong. But I wouldn't be having sex I would be making love to her as if she was a 19 year old woman and treat her like a queen. maverick
ReplyDeleteTo me 22 years I madly want to have sex with the elderly lady...
ReplyDeleteI will be 58 years old soon, and have been attracted to older women all of my adult life. I never acted on this attraction until I became single in 1997. She was about 77 years old then, and the sex was GREAT ! We had our relationship for about a year, then I had to relocate out of town. I have remarried to a woman about my age, but I still have a large desire to be with older women.
ReplyDeleteHi Joan
ReplyDeleteI am a 50 year old male ,My mother in law(73) has moved in with us and is a older version of my wife. This is causing me some discomfort as I have started getting sexal feelings for her.I know that I dont help matters by sticking to a old habbit of walking around in the nick when I lock up the house at night .and she has caught me doing this on more than one occassion.she doesnt turn away but takes a good look , which just turns me on LOL anyway so I have started to try and find out if other men have had the same desires,and what the experince was like if they faulted and took the plunge.I am also looking for advice on how to approach the subject with her. And find out how she feels and if the feeling is the same how we are going to deal with it.My gues is though that she is probably just as horny as me and if we did go to bed she would probably one of my best encounters.
So yes that is why I did the Granny Sex search and ended up here, most of the other sites are just porn pictures and at my age I think thats a waste of time ,I must admit I have had a look at some of the pictures and if her parts look like those wow wow LOL
I have been reading some of the post and this is a great site for info.
Thank you
tony from South Africa
Tony, thank you for your comment. I know the obvious suggestion is to put on a robe when you're locking up at night -- she may think you're purposely being seductive (which, admit it, you are!), and she's responding.
ReplyDeleteThe most important question to help you decide whether to take the titillation to the next stage -- and the question you didn't mention -- is this: Is a sexy enocunter with mom-in-law worth losing your marriage?
I can't imagine that your wife would go along with the plan, and don't think you won't be discovered, because you will! Have you talked to your wife about your attraction? That's the place to start.
I hope you'll continue the discussion!
Joan
I have always been sexually attracted towards mature women. When I say mature, I mean 50+ or so. I am 25 and an attractive guy. But somehow I can never masturbate without fantasizing about a matured lady. I don't know if this is a desire borne out of any hidden incest fantasy, but it only growing stronger. Perhaps I am looking for the pleasure of an experienced sex partner and the comfort of a mother in the same woman? But being in a conservative society like India, I believe this will forever remain a fantasy.
ReplyDeleteI have always proffered much older women for many reasons where do I meet them
ReplyDeleteCurious, I address the "how to meet" and "how to approach" questions in other posts. Go to the right-hand column of this blog, find the section marked "labels," and scroll down the list to "younger men/older women." Click on that, and you'll see all the posts I've written on this top -- plenty to read, learn, and enjoy!
ReplyDeleteHello older ladies and i'm a 40 years old man that's love talking going out and having sexual relationship with older woman and I don't care the oldest you are and if you would be interested and like and love having sex with a younger guy. Please texts me with some of your lovely pictures of any kind and i'm an attractive hot sexy and so and very wonderful man that you would ever meet. And I live in North Charleston SC and I work in James Island for James Island Public Service as a trash collector and please live close to where I live and work and I hope to hare from you but please texts me first with pictures and tell me a little about you and how old you are Thomas Sanders and i'm on facebook (843)870-3944
ReplyDeletelol I searched the term "Granny Sex" because I am a freak that likes older experienced women some times and I like watching them perform.I find older women to be more stable,elegant and like a fine wine.
ReplyDeleteIm 45 and divorced, and back into the dating scene again. I had been looking for women younger than me, until i met an amazing 67 year old woman at a get together at a friends house. We have dated once, and text each other daily It's weird to say it, but i have a crush on her. She's classy, gorgeous, and full of positive energy. She's on my mind every day!
ReplyDeleteI didn't find this site with a "granny sex" search, but like many of the prior posts, I'm just checking in as another guy who is much more attracted to older women than younger ones. My wife in her late 50's is just getting into the range I like, and it's great. Like one of the prior posters, I had a tremendous crush on my wife's mother when she was in her 60's and 70's. So if my wife progresses like her mom did, I will find her increasingly attractive for the next 20 years or so.
ReplyDeleteI’m 25 and cant seem to shake my powerful lust for older women. I’ve had it since i was in my teens as far as i know and probably since i first started becoming sexually active. in the back of my mind growing up i always new my sexual lust for older women was a social taboo so i kept it to myself. This experience gives me a little insight into why gay men feel the need to come out.
ReplyDeleteI think id be less afraid to come out as being gay than this. Probably due to society’s more relaxed excepting views of the last 50 or so years.
here in lies the problem i don’t know how to approach a much older woman and keep it a private affair if you know what i mean, will society treat me as a leppa if i was to be open about this.
Anonymous (Jan. 8, 2013): I've written tips for men who like older women -- see the label "younger men older women" in the right-hand column. Get to know the woman before you approach her sexually. It's true that society isn't very accepting of this, but many women our age are just fine with it.
ReplyDeleteI'm 30 and I wasn't looking for granny sex. Find your page because I was searching for interesting sex advises, and your site has a lot of useful information for all ages!
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