Feisty Sue Johanson, who entertains and informs viewers of Talk Sex with Sue Johanson on Oxygen TV, tells the July/August 2007 issue of AARP The Magazine how to have great sex after 30 years of marriage. Her tips:
Talk about cellulite. Talk about wrinkles. Ignoring changes in your body won't make them go away.
Dress up like Tarzan. Or a nurse. No one else will know.
Guess what? Many older couples don't like penetration. Luckily it's not the only way to have fun.
Do the dishes naked.
Waiting until you're in the mood is baloney. Try going along with your partner when you don't feel like it. You might be surprised.
Take a vacation. It's amazing what happens in Nassau.
What should we add to this list? I'd add these:
Get a sampler kit of lubricants and try them all.
Read erotica to each other.
Take tango, waltz, or nightclub 2-step lessons.
Surprise each other.
Your turn -- what would you add?